How to be a man?
I remember growing up in school and college, where I had lot of things in mind!
That I should start my YouTube Channel, my blog and lots of other things, but things were not going right so I thought let’s wait till things gets right and then we can start !
But now I have realized that if I keep pushing my work, I’m gonna end up doing nothing!
“Stop Hoping for a completion of anything in life”
Just do it!
This is the first step in becoming a superior man
Realize this if you are not doing it now, you will never do it!
So, don’t wait for things to happen!
2). “ Don’t get lost in tasks & duties”
You may have lot of work to do! But prioritize it! Maximize the work that will help you reach your destiny and minimize that wont.
When I’m dieing, what would I say?
Would I say that I was a good boy, cleaned my room everyday…. or “ I pursued my purpose”.
But you have to give more time for pursuing your purpose than other!
3). “ Be willing to change everything in life”
I remember growing up as a kid, some of the things that I was afraid of changing was what if my dad loses his job? I’m going to be starving?
But now as a man “I don’t care”, I have cultivated my self to take risk and not be afraid of any change in my life, I accept it with open arms!
And about this topic I remember about “Andrew Carnegie “ he was one of the successful business man of his period!
And when he was asked about change he said
“You can take away our factory , machinery and everything, give us four years and we will be back where we are”
That’s how I feel now!
So be willing to change everything in your life!
Developing yourself = Immunity to change
4). “ Respect, listen and do what you want to”
When you were kid, people told you that you should become a doc or whatever listen to it and think how will that help you for the betterment of your goals!
“Remember wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure”
And as a man you are grown up enough to make your own decisions, don’t go up to your parents and ask it, be brave enough to respect your decision and follow it!
I have seen a lot of people who go to their mom and dad and ask them “ should I take commerce or science or arts”
Respect your decision if you don’t then no one will!
Hold to your deepest realization
5). “If you don’t know your purpose, discover it”
Ask yourself a question
If you had all the Money
And all the Time In this world
What would you do?
This is one of the way to find your purpose
Or else do something and find your passion
Those are the kind of things that you will never get tired but you will put full energy!
